I have something I need to plan out. I'm not a huge planner in general, especially when it comes to vacations. I kind of like to fly by the seat of my pants. I mean, a vacation is supposed to be relaxing, and what's relaxing about having every second planned out? It's not that I don't like to
do stuff on vacations, but I like to leave my options open so that when the moment hits, I can decide what sounds fun or convenient or relaxing at that time, and do it. But making a bunch of plans and appointments and having to rush off to make it on time is not my idea of a good vacation. So while my flexibility will be a major asset in this upcoming trip, I also need to bite the bullet and plan some stuff ahead of time so that I'm not wandering around lost.
Here's the deal, Jim has a business trip to Philly for three weeks in March. Three weeks home alone does
not sound like fun to me, so we talked about it and decided that Lily and I could fly out for a portion of the trip and stay with Jim. During the day while Jim is at work, Lily and I could hit the town and see what all Philly has to offer. And then we could all spend the evenings and weekends together as a family. That sounds like
way more fun than three weeks at home without my sweetie, and with little to no adult interaction! Plus, Lily will turn two a bit later in March and then we'll have to
pay for her plane ticket... yuck! And we had enough credit card points to cover mine, so we're going on the cheap.
But the other side of the coin is that I will be almost 6 months pregnant and will be flying with and traipsing around Philly with a nearly two-year-old toddler. I had better have my ducks in a row! I mean, if I were by myself or just with Jim it wouldn't be a huge deal if we got lost and spent an hour figuring out where we were or backtracking or anything like that. But with Lily in tow, and me
solely responsible for finding our way
and keeping track and entertaining her, that could be a huge disaster! So I'm taking the month I have between now and when we leave to figure out what Lily and I are going to do all day.
Here's what I have so far:
First of all, I found
this website that has all sorts of suggestions for seeing Philly with a toddler. Actually, that site is cool because you can pick any city and any age kid and it will rate all kinds of popular sites according to what that age child will enjoy. So from this site, I found out that Independence Hall is not so interesting to two-year-
olds, but the Please Touch Museum is! Good to know! And while on that subject, the
Please Touch Museum is going to be a must-see for us! In fact, it's one that I'm going to save for a weekend so that Jim can enjoy it with us. I think Lily will have an absolute ball there. Another thing I found was the
Philadelphia City Pass. If you've never used a City Pass when doing the tourist thing in a new city, you really should! Twice, Jim and I have visited Seattle and bought a City Pass and haven't regretted it one little bit. You get to see a bunch of stuff that you would probably want to visit anyway, for a way reduced price. For $59 we can get in to the Franklin Institute, Adventure Aquarium, the Zoo, a day pass on the
trolley, the Please Touch Museum (ooh, that's new since I last looked at the site... AWESOME!), and the Academy of Natural Sciences. If you look at the site, you'll see that there are actually a couple of other options, but that's what I would choose (I don't think Lily would be that interested in the Eastern State
Penitentiary, and being the nerd that I am, I'd choose the Academy of Natural Sciences over the National Constitution Center any day! Sorry mom :).
Now my task is to make sure that everything is going to be open on the days we plan to go to them, and to figure out transportation. I have the one free day on the trolley with the City Pass, but I'm sure I'll be utilizing the subway system as well. If you buy tokens, it's $1.45 per trip, or $6 for up to 8 trips in a day. So I'll have to see where all I want to go and how many transfers it's going to take to get there and see which way I need to do it each day. I also need to find out what places will be free for Lily, and where I'll have to pay.
Oh, and the Cheese Steaks! My favorite sandwich in the world is a Philly Cheese Steak sandwich. So you can bet that 6-months-pregnant Alyson in Philadelphia is going to be
mapping out all the best Cheese Steak sandwich shops. My motto will be "A Cheese Steak (or two) a day keeps the crazies away." There is some serious research that is
begging to be done on this subject.
Yesterday I also bought some stuff on Amazon. I did some research and found that for my needs,
Frommer's would probably be the best guide book out there. When I went to Europe I didn't have a guide book, but was always jealous of those who did because they would have all this inside information and interesting tidbits about the places we were visiting. So I decided to invest a few dollars so that I could have some tidbits of my own. And I also bought a good
map. My sweet geek of a husband suggested that I have GPS capabilities on my phone, and could probably find some good apps for touring Philly, rather than carrying around a bulky book and map. And he is right. But I'm just too old-fashioned. I like a map that I can hold and fold and I don't have to wait for it to load. God created my eyes to zoom in automatically without having to reload the page, and I really appreciate that. Thanks God!
Another great thing about this trip is that we're staying right downtown, and probably within walking distance of a lot of things we want to see. When Jim travels, he has to find a hotel that offers a certain government rate, and we were able to find just such a rate at the downtown
Embassy Suites. So we'll have a suite with a kitchenette (so we don't have to eat out
every meal) and a second "room" for Lily to sleep in. And we won't have to rent a car or take an expensive cab ride into the city every day. It will all be at our fingertips!
Yay!
AND (that's right, it gets better!) One weekend while we're there, we're going to rent a car and travel 2 hours to NYC to visit Dave and Anna and Madison (brother, sister-in-law, niece). And they might even be able to come in the other weekend to visit us in Philly!
So between reading my tour guide book, planning and mapping things out, and doing online research, I'm pretty sure that I'm going to have fun and
not go crazy. I'm wavering between super duper ridiculously excited for this trip, and a bit nervous. But it's mostly excited!